How to answer to the non-Christian boy who likes you?


A boy at school likes me but he is not a believer. How to get rid of this because it seems it will be for his profit?

As long as the boy did not tell you anything, you should not pay any attention but look for the responsibilities you have at school and tell the Gospel to all and learn well.

If the boy came to you to propose you friendship or dating, you must answer nicely and tell him the following:

  1. You are a Christian and Christians are not dating. Therefore, you will never accept dating because you want to live well before the Lord Jesus whom you love and you entered a covenant with Him. If he asks you why Christians are not dating, it is good to tell him the truths of the article “Dating and successful marriage” Part 1 and Part 2.
  2. If that boy will understand why Christians are not dating and he would like to propose you marriage, you will have to say that God forbids the marriage of believers with non-Christians and that Christians shall marry only in the Lord, that means only with born again Christians, which entered into a covenant with the Lord Jesus Christ and only with the person you love.
  3. Both in the first and in the second case, when that guy will come to talk to you, take advantage of this opportunity and present him the Gospel message and urge him to believe in the Lord Jesus, to repent and to enter the New Covenant without which he will not see eternal life and salvation, that is a more important thing for him than friendship or even marriage with you.

Translated by Felicia Rotaru