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Question:<\/span> <\/p>\n I have a question that will sound silly or strange, but I really need to know the answer.<\/em><\/span>\u00a0I do not have a boyfriend and I think that it\u00a0is nothing wrong with it. <\/em><\/span>I prefer to wait rather than to rush\u00a0after the first boy.<\/em><\/span> But, you know, I\u2019ve got tired to be continuously asked\u00a0by those who surround me if I have a lover, as if they have only my\u00a0concern. <\/em><\/span>I do not know how to make my mother understand that every grass has its shadow because I think that she worries that I may remain a spinster, for all girls of her friends already have boyfriends.<\/em><\/span> Others are surprised when they\u00a0learn that I do not have a lover, as if I were 100 years, when I am\u00a0only 18 years old.<\/em><\/span> Sometimes I feel I want to\u00a0tell them something \u2026 How more should I\u00a0suffer it?<\/em><\/span> Now my priority is my studies.<\/em><\/span>\u00a0I do not say that I wouldn\u2019t like to have a fiance, but if there is not one, I do not make a tragedy.<\/em><\/span>\u00a0Sometimes I even begin to think that I have problems with love.<\/em><\/span> Help me, please, and advise me how to answer\u00a0to those that so much care about my fate.<\/em><\/span> Thank you in advance.<\/em><\/span> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n As I take it, the most important thing is that you think well and analyze correctly things regarding\u00a0marriage and love.<\/span> Now it is wise\u00a0to learn things that can help you\u00a0build a beautiful family later and\u00a0God will send you the groom\u00a0at the\u00a0determined time, as He promised in His Word and as He has\u00a0shown in the lives of thousands of people.<\/span> God said:<\/span> <\/p>\n The hope of the righteous is gladness,\u00a0but the expectation of the wicked perishes <\/span><\/span>– (Proverbs 10:28)(NASB)<\/span> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n You can not stop people asking you because you can not change people.<\/span> But, when you can not change a thing, you must change your attitude toward him.<\/span> So, you should\u00a0never get offended by their questions.<\/span> You can tell them that they will be invited\u00a0or that they will be announced when you marry, and when they\u00a0ask you about love, tell them about Jesus\u2019 love for you and for all people and tell them that anyone who has not experienced that love, will not know what real love is in\u00a0marriage.<\/span> <\/p>\n Thus, use this question of\u00a0people in order to proclaim the Gospel.<\/span> <\/p>\n Translated by Felicia Rotaru<\/em><\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: I have a question that will sound silly or strange, but I really need to know the answer.\u00a0I do not have a boyfriend and I think that it\u00a0is nothing wrong with it. I prefer to wait rather than to rush\u00a0after the first boy. But, you know, I\u2019ve got tired to be continuously asked\u00a0by those […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":46,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","ep_exclude_from_search":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[126],"tags":[7814],"class_list":{"0":"post-63378","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-answer-from-the-bible","7":"tag-casatorie","8":"entry"},"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n\n
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