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Question:<\/span> <\/p>\n How should\u00a0the husband be divided between the family as the first priority and occasional encounters with \u201cthe guys for a beer\u201d, so that it sometimes provokes\u00a0discussions with wife?<\/em><\/span>\u00a0She believes that in this way the husband must choose between family and friends,\u00a0either one or the other, not both.<\/em><\/span> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n The husband has the responsibility not only to fulfill the material needs of his family, but to insist on building and maintaining beautiful relationships.<\/span>\u00a0Here\u2019s what God commanded in the Old Testament:<\/span> <\/p>\n When a man takes a new wife, he shall not go out with the army nor be charged with any duty; he shall be free at home one year and shall give happiness to his wife whom he has taken.<\/span><\/span> (Deuteronomy 24:5)(NASB)<\/span> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n God insists on building relationships between spouses and these are prior to any other tasks.<\/span> Therefore, any man should understand this and spend time with his wife and children to build relationships, especially in this hurried age when we are caught up with so many responsibilities and have\u00a0so little time left to spend it in the family.<\/span> <\/p>\n I remember about a schoolmate who was married and\u00a0spent his time with his friends who were still not married and even when his wife was in hospital with the children he\u00a0visited them occasionally.<\/span> Their family was ruined very quickly.<\/span> <\/p>\n I also remember how in my village\u00a0men gathered in the morning and sometimes they\u00a0began to drink and wives continually came to call them home to do their responsibilities. <\/span>All those families were also ruined.<\/span> <\/p>\n It is not good when a man finds more pleasure to spend time and communicate more with others than with his wife and children.<\/span> It is this that most disturbs the\u00a0wife and it would not disturb a man\u00a0less\u00a0if his wife would find more pleasure in spending time with her friends than with him.<\/span> <\/p>\n Translated by Felicia Rotaru<\/em><\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: How should\u00a0the husband be divided between the family as the first priority and occasional encounters with \u201cthe guys for a beer\u201d, so that it sometimes provokes\u00a0discussions with wife?\u00a0She believes that in this way the husband must choose between family and friends,\u00a0either one or the other, not both. 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