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It is well known that children sometimes behave cruelly towards other children and especially in our century when they are\u00a0bombarded with movies and games which lead to violence.<\/span> Moreover, it sometimes happens\u00a0for almost every\u00a0parent that\u00a0his child is beaten by his classmates.<\/span> How is it correct to proceed in such situations to do good to your child and\u00a0to those who used violence to him?<\/span> <\/p>\n<\/p>\n When your child says that he was beaten\u00a0by his classmates, or he comes at home with wounds which show that he was resorted to violence, it is important to find out what has happened and to listen to the child carefully. It is true that this may be a trivial gamboling that happen to children, or maybe he played and\u00a0was hit and received\u00a0a bruise, but it is important to be sure that\u00a0the reason is not something more serious. <\/span>If the child is systematically resorted to\u00a0violence at school\u00a0and we do not take it seriously, it can happen that both\u00a0the\u00a0physical and\u00a0mental health of the child will\u00a0be affected.<\/span> Therefore,\u00a0we should not be careless.<\/span> But, let us not go to another extreme.<\/span> <\/p>\n Some parents behave more childish than their children\u00a0and as they hear that their\u00a0daughter or son was beaten, they do not\u00a0even ask anything, but the next day go to school mad with rage to revenge themselves on\u00a0those who had dared to touch their \u201cdarling\u201d. <\/span>It is a great mistake and this act will bring more contempt and derision at the child of parents who do so.<\/span> I remember, as a child from our class was the son of a teacher.<\/span> He had the great blemish to act and speak disdainfully at colleagues, so it was not surprising that he peeved\u00a0his peers and was beaten some\u00a0times.<\/span> Then, he quickly ran to his mother who came and beat the guilty child\u00a0in front\u00a0of all of us.<\/span> This gave rise to an unthinkable\u00a0contempt of the entire\u00a0class for the one who complained to the mother.<\/span> He, however, did not cease to act and speak mockingly.<\/span> Therefore, the remaining classmates quickly found the solution.<\/span>\u00a0There was a dark corridor where we had to go when\u00a0we went to the math lesson.<\/span>\u00a0Many times it happened that someone was spying the\u00a0mocking colleague there and\u00a0was beating him, so that he had\u00a0to complain and whine\u00a0all the remaining lessons.<\/span> But, he could not go to complain to his\u00a0mother, because he did not know who put an end to the bad words he was telling.<\/span> Therefore, if your child is telling you that\u00a0he has been resorted to violence, do not hurry to interfere directly, but \u2026<\/span> <\/p>\n This is the biggest help and lesson that you can give your child.<\/span> To spend time with him, help him understand what has happened, what are the causes, which is his fault and how he can\u00a0resolve the conflict by himself.<\/span> Moreover, you can not\u00a0always stay with your child\u00a0and\u00a0resolve the conflicts he has or causes.<\/span> You will put the foundation for his happiness once you will teach him to resolve the\u00a0conflicts in which he is\u00a0involved.<\/span> <\/p>\n In the Epistle of James, God says:<\/span> <\/p>\n My brethren, do not hold your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with an attitude of personal favoritism. <\/span><\/span>(James 2:1)(NASB)<\/span> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Do not hurry\u00a0to side with your child always\u00a0and not\u00a0before you understand well what has happened and who is the culprit.<\/span> Investigate the case thoroughly and show him\u00a0where he was wrong and then be ready to\u00a0use the correct method of discipline. <\/span>Moreover, if he spoke or behaved badly and it ended up being beaten by his colleagues, it is a way by which the child realizes that evil deeds bring consequences that nobody escapes.<\/span> <\/p>\n In most cases, if taught well and if he wants to listen, the child will succeed to resolve the conflict by himself.<\/span> But if he is not successful, or he came across colleagues that behave extremely difficult (as it is now fashionable to say in pedagogical terms) you will have to interfere.<\/span> Go to school to talk to teachers and to understand better what is happening.<\/span> Then, you should necessarily\u00a0discuss with the fellow colleagues that use\u00a0violence to your child.<\/span> Discuss with other colleagues that are not involved in the conflict, but may throw more light on understanding the cause of what happens.<\/span> If it does not produce any effect,\u00a0talk with the parents of the children who use\u00a0violence and if this does not produce effect, you have every right and duty to call the police to address the situation.<\/span> In no case allow the child to remain a victim of violence or inhuman treatment.<\/span> <\/p>\n I remember how many reports were sent\u00a0about the\u00a0schools\u00a0from Balti where girls were using an extremely violent\u00a0and inhuman treatment to their colleagues.<\/span> <\/p>\n This is still a serious reason for introducing the teaching of the\u00a0Bible\u00a0in public schools.<\/span> <\/p>\n What experiences did the reader have in this regard\u00a0and what\u00a0suggestions does he have for parents whose children are beaten by peers?<\/span> <\/p>\n Translated by Felicia Rotaru<\/em><\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It is well known that children sometimes behave cruelly towards other children and especially in our century when they are\u00a0bombarded with movies and games which lead to violence. Moreover, it sometimes happens\u00a0for almost every\u00a0parent that\u00a0his child is beaten by his classmates. 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\n2.<\/span> <\/span>Take your time to interfere directly to solve the\u00a0conflict<\/span> <\/h4>\n
\n3. <\/span><\/span>Teach the child how to resolve conflict<\/span> <\/h4>\n
\n4.<\/span> <\/span>Be correct<\/span>
\n<\/h4>\n\n
\n5.<\/span> <\/span>If the child fails, interfere directly<\/span> <\/h4>\n